Managing Your Boss, Sergeant Major Style
It’s not manipulationâ€”it’s forging ties based on mutual respect and understanding
Do Sergeants Major manage their bosses or are they leading them? Is their relationship just manipulation
of their rater? Is it brown nosing or sucking up? Or is it just a case of the Sergeant Major trying to
establish their own power base in the shadow of their boss? Professional Sergeants Major will manage
their boss for very good reasons: to get resources to do the best job, not only for themselves, but for their
bosses and the organization. They will actively pursue a healthy and productive working relationship
based on mutual respect and understandingâ€”understanding of their bosses’ strengths, weaknesses, goals,
work styles, and needs. Here’s what can happen when that donâ€™t occur.
A new boss with a formal work style replaced someone who’d been looser, more intuitive. The new boss
preferred written reports and structured meetings. He wanted more face to face discussions with the
Sergeant major and expected more details before making decisions. He wanted to know what the
Sergeant Major was doing during the day and major issues he was working. His Sergeant Major found
this too controlling. He blew off the meeting and seldom sent background information. When his boss
finally caught up to him the Sergeant Major was often blindsided by unanticipated questions. His boss
found their meetings inefficient and frustrating. The Sergeant Major was later relieved and reassigned.
In contrast, here’s how another Sergeant majorâ€™s sensitivity to this same boss’s style really paid off:
This Sergeant Major identified the kinds and frequency of information his boss wanted. He did his
homework and got answers to questions he anticipated his boss asking. He kept his boss informed of
what he was doing and sent him status reports on major projects he was working. The result? There were
more productive meetings occurring and the Sergeant Major was becoming an even more innovative
problem solver than he was with his previous boss.
Sergeants Major often don’t realize how much their bosses depend on them. They need cooperation,
reliability, and honesty from them. Many Sergeants Major also don’t realize how much they depend on
their bossesâ€”for links to the rest of the organization, for setting priorities, and for obtaining critical
resources and support. Recognizing this mutual dependence, effective Sergeants Major seek out
information about the boss’s concerns and are sensitive to his work style. They also understand how their
own attitudes toward authority can sabotage the relationship. Some see the boss as the enemy and fight
him at every turn; others are overly compliant, viewing the boss as an all-wise parent.
The Idea in Practiceâ€” You can benefit from this mutual dependence and develop a very productive
relationship with your boss by focusing on:
â€¢ Compatible Work Styles. Bosses process information differently. “Listeners” prefer to be briefed in
person so they can ask questions. “Readers” want to process written information first, and then meet to
Decision-making styles also vary. Some bosses are highly involved. Touch base with them frequently.
Others prefer to delegate. Inform them about important decisions you’ve already made.
â€¢ Mutual Expectations. Don’t passively assume you know what the boss expects. Find out. With some
bosses, write detailed outlines of your work for their approval. With others, carefully planned discussions
Also, communicate your expectations to find out if they are realistic. Persuade the boss to accept the most
â€¢ Information Flow. Sergeants Major typically underestimate what their bosses need to knowâ€”and what
they do know. Keep the boss informed through processes that fit his style. Be forthright about both good
and bad news.
â€¢ Dependability and Honesty. Trustworthy subordinates only make promises they can keep and don’t
shade the truth or play down difficult issues.
â€¢ Good Use of Time and Resources. Don’t waste your boss’s time with trivial issues.
Selectively draw on his time and resources to meet the most important goalsâ€”yours, his, and the